When you see someone who is "between jobs" at a get together, open the conversation with a general question like, "So, how are things going" Or "What are you up to these days?"
Home and family advisor Sue Shellenbarger says it gives them an opportunity to talk about their job search if they want to. Don't give advice.
If you're the job seeker coming to a social gathering be ready to make a good impression. Look your best and be prepared to talk about topics of general interest, such as current events or sports. Acquaintances will remember you and recommend you when opportunities arise. Don't complain about your situation.
Job seekers who don't mind talking about their search could have a brief elevator speech prepared that describes the job they want. They can also ask questions to draw out helpful contacts and leads.
