Thanksgiving is a time to give thanks for the blessings in our lives, and the greatest blessing for most of us is the people we love. There are many ways to show our gratitude for what others bring to our lives, and we can do it anytime — not just on Thanksgiving Day.
* Send a handwritten thank-you note to your Thanksgiving host. If you did the hosting, write them for the people who showed up, pitched in, and made the holiday special.
* Plan some quality time with people you care about — set a date, plan an activity, and really do it.
* Give genuine compliments to others. It's a simple way to show that we care, and it really matters.
* Open your home to a few extra guests. Ask a friend to join you if you know they don't have plans, or see if elderly neighbors would like to stop by. If they decline, pack up some leftovers and give them the gift of a meal that only requires reheating.
* Keep family traditions alive. Maybe Grandma made the best pumpkin pie, but needs some extra help these days. You can take over the labor while Grandma relaxes and offers guidance. The pie still gets made (with Grandma's personal touch) and the tradition continues.
* Say it clearly. Use words like "I appreciate everything you've done," or "I love spending my Thanksgiving with you." Your loved ones may be glad to hear the words, and you'll be glad you said them.
