You are hospitalized. You've provided a battery of information to the admitting nurse, the first of several nurses you will have over three working shifts. Each has his/her assigned duties. You watch them come and go and take vitals and check the flow of fluid in the IV drip inserted into a vein to ensure hydration.
But, you have questions. Who should you ask?
The on-duty nurses and aides are there to fulfill your doctor's directives for your care and answer questions. They want you to understand clearly the basics of your condition, the tests and treatment choices and potential risks, especially you if you are confused or anxious.
Nurses will tell you their name and schedule, and that information probably will be posted for you to see easily. The name of the aide might also be there. When the nurse comes in, don't hesitate to ask every question you have.
* Write out a list of questions in advance. Ask about tests, test results, and medication. Is physical, occupational or speech therapy required before hospital discharge?
* If you don't know or understand, ask. Your full understanding is essential to your care.
* Ask for any available materials written for patients and that may have illustrations.
* Your family caregiver can get water or adjust your pillows and sheets.
* Caregivers can offer the nurse personal tips about the patient who, for example, might prefer to take a pill with a soft drink.
* Understand that the nurse can't give more pain medication than the doctor has ordered.
* Don't become be demanding or insulting to the staff. These are the people that can save your life, if necessary.
* Don't expect the hospital to be a hotel. There will be some noise, inevitably. Nothing will be entirely comfortable. It is not your own bed and it won't feel right. You will have to wake up for blood tests and more. The food is bound to be different. Try to tolerate the inconvenience and find something you like about the food.
* Show your appreciation. A thank you and smile are always welcome. You might jot down the names of nurses and staff whose help you especially appreciated. Send a thank you note or even a gift like flowers and candy. -82-x
