In all the excitement of fancy dresses, dashing tuxes, flowers, and photos, it's easy to forget those things you meant to say before the prom couple leaves.
So say them early.
Above all, remind kids that drinking and driving at prom is dangerous. Surveys by AAA show that between 31 and 41 percent of teens say it is likely that they or their friends would be drinking on the night of prom. According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, about 300 teens have lost their lives to alcohol-related traffic incidents on prom weekends during the past few years. Drinking can also lead more teenagers to engage in other risky behaviors such as drug abuse or sexual activity.
Prom night is important, but it's one day. Remind kids about their future plans. Likely, the prom-bound teenager still feels invincible, but it's worth reminding them that this is one night out of many. There is no need to take chances.
Discuss their plans and itinerary. Walk through the evening from limo to prom to dinner. Write down times.
Get the names and cell phone numbers of all people in the prom group.
Stress that if the teen gets into a bad situation, they should call you and ask for help.
On the night of prom, you will need to know how your child is getting to the dance, what they are doing afterward, and how they are getting home. Have your teenager call you after the prom is over, when they arrive at their next destination, and at other pre-determined times to make sure they are safe.